God WILL achieve His purposes for me.  I must learn patience.   Frustration is the result of my expectations not being met - but God is reaching His expectationsand purposes in and for me.   I must rest in that - if He is happy then I am happy - so be it!!

Likewise amongst the members of the wider family of God.  They are exactly where God wants them to be.  He has brought them as far as they have come - who am I to complain because we view things differently or are at different places in Him.